Living our music with the Michelangelo Method

Living our music with The Michelangelo Method

Tom Hulce as Mozart in Amadeus, 1984 “Many people die with their music still in them. Why is this so? Too often it is because they are always getting ready to live. Before they know it, time runs out.” – Oliver Wendell Holmes

The book The Michelangelo Method promises to use the Italian Renaissance painter, sculptor, architect, poet and engineer as a model for gaining insight into our own creative life, and releasing our music – our potential talents.

Here is an excerpt from the book :

Susan worked as a legal assistant for a major law firm. Her daughter, “the flower from my compost heap of a marriage” as she put it, had recently left for college on an academic scholarship.

With her daughter launched, Susan was left to consider her own path. She looked down at the ground below her. “Dull cement,” she said, “and my feet were planted in it long before I had a chance to choose.”

Susan wanted a change. She was dying for a change. But to what? She had no idea. And wasn’t it too late already? After all, she was nearly 42.

Susan couldn’t think constructively. She believed that she had no choices. Here was a bright, articulate, capable woman who, in her own mind, could never do anything right and believed she had missed her chance anyway.

Susan thought her life nothing more than a giant “might have been.” If she hadn’t married so young, she might have had a relationship she was happy with. If she hadn’t gotten pregnant, she might have finished law school. If she had finished law school, she could have been the lawyer and not the legal assistant.

Susan couldn’t figure out where to begin. Her early enchantment with the law had faded. She wanted a new life, and her greatest fear was, to paraphrase Oliver Wendell Holmes, that she might die with her music still in her. For Susan, it was time to start playing her own music.

Working with a life coach, Susan asked, “How do I find out what exactly to do? Can you tell me?”

“You have to find it within yourself,” the coach said. “But I can start by asking you a few questions that will begin to reveal your gift.”

“But I don’t have a particular gift. I’m not gifted.”

If you were to ask someone what their gift is, chances are their minds will immediately turn to Michelangelo sculpting his Pietà or Einstein unlocking the universe’s secrets with a simple equation.

People tend to think of gifts in such extraordinary terms. They see a gift as an innate, exceptional talent, as something that few people in this life are born with. But they are wrong.

A gift isn’t just the province of the exceptionally talented, the successful, or the blessed. Quite the contrary, everyone has a gift. Some gifts are thousand-watt bolts of light. Others are hidden in the stone. All are there, waiting to be revealed.

Your gift lies in the place where your values, passions, and strengths meet. Discovering that place is the first step toward sculpting your masterpiece, your life.

Excerpt from “Finding Your Gift” By Ken Schuman and Ron Paxton – from The Michelangelo Method, posted on Oprah.com.